Tuesday, September 10, 2013

He's Got This!

He's got this!! Adoption is a tough road to travel and I've always called it an emotional roller coaster. But, with each of our journeys, God has placed a special person in my life to journey alongside of and each of these women have become lifetime friends who I adore.

This journey is no different and I was blessed to meet Jodi a few months ago. She and I are using the same agency and our girls are from the same orphanage and close to the same age. We talk and compare notes everyday. We pray for one another, we laugh and we cry together. She and I have both had a rough few weeks lately as we are waiting on our LOA from China. But we have continued to pray and support one another and I truly would be lost without her through all of this.

 Well, her daughter is celebrating her second birthday today and she sent a cake to the orphanage. She told me that she specifically prayed for our Lyla Lu to be in the pictures that the orphanage would take and send to her. She specifically prayed that Lyla was seated right next to her daughter. Now, keep in mind that there are HUNDREDS of children in this orphanage and with that in mind, take a look at the picture she received today....

and will you notice that our sweetie is not only in her picture, but is seated right next to the birthday girl? Out. Of. All. The. Children. His answered prayer was a great reminder to us that He is in control and He's got this. What a blessing!!

 Words of wisdom from another adoptive momma .... “When you say YES to adoption, you are saying YES to enter the suffering of the orphan, and that suffering includes WAITING FOR YOU TO GET TO THEM. I promise you, their suffering is worse than yours. We say YES to the tears, YES to the longing, YES to the maddening process, YES to the money, YES to hope, YES to the screaming frustration of it all, YES to going the distance through every unforeseen discouragement and delay. Do not imagine that something outside of “your perfect plan” means you heard God wrong. There is NO perfect adoption. EVERY adoption has snags. We Americans invented the “show me a sign” or “this is a sign” or “this must mean God is closing a door” or “God must not be in this because it is hard,” but all that is garbage. You know what’s hard? Being an orphan. They need us to be champions and heroes for them, fighting like hell to get them home. So we will. We may cry and rage and scream and wail in the process, but get them home we will.” –Jen Hatmaker


Thursday, August 1, 2013

Loving Lyla Home

UPDATE.....T-shirt sales are over. Thanks so much for those of you who ordered. I should receive them and mail them out very soon.

This awesome design was created by a friend of mine just for our adoption! Jess, thanks SO much for being a part of Lyla's story! 

If you haven't read Lyla's story, please see the post below this one.

 Our agency is working hard to expedite our travel so that we can bring her home in the next few months and get her the medical care she needs. Because things are moving quickly, we are working on some fundraisers for the orphanage donation fee, which is $6,000.00. Many of you asked how you can help! Here are some ways you can help, if you would like...

**We would love for you to pray for Lyla, who needs us to get her home as quickly as possible so that her heart can be fixed. Please pray His protection over her while we wait for Ch*na to allow us to travel for her. 


**And for the coffee lovers, please consider purchasing your coffee through this link and part of your purchase will go towards bringing Lyla home. Please be sure to shop directly through the link.


**You can  purchase one of our awesome shirts! We're taking pre-orders so please allow a few weeks for your shirt to arrive.  It's a win-win...be part of Lyla's story, get a new cool t-shirt AND help make a difference for the little ones left behind

Shirts are $25.00 shipping included! $20.00 for local friends who don't need shipped.

             Ladies Jr. Fit softstyle Tee
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Please use the BUY NOW button below to buy your tees. Make sure to choose "shipping" or "no shipping"
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Thank you for being a part of Lyla's story and don't forget to read the post below :)

Have YOU seen this video?


Saturday, July 27, 2013

Lyla’s Story

We all have a story and so does our Lyla Lu! She was born in China with a very serious heart condition and no family to call her own(most likely due to her heart disease). Walker pic 1 
On the other side of the world lives a family who was sure that their family was complete. But God, in His infinite wisdom, knew differently.
You see, the mom has many friends who dedicate their lives to advocating for orphans. The mom has a heart for the orphans as well, so every precious face she would see of a child needing a family, would make her wonder if one more was possible. But there were many roadblocks that seemed too big for this to happen. Time, finances, work schedules, etc. So, the mom went about her daily busy-ness.

However, the mom would continue to see the orphan crisis and continue to wonder if, maybe....
Many people would ask the mom about adoption and when she shared their family story, they would respond with "well, that's nice that YOU did that, but WE could never". or "We would love to, BUT...
So, as the mom continued to scroll through her fb pages and to see all of the children needing families, she started to realize that the reasons she had for not bringing home one more, were excuses in God's eyes, not reasons. All of the reasons people shared with the mom as to why they couldn't adopt, were coming from her lips. Michelle!! He equips those He calls!!!


The mom and dad were getting ready to celebrate their 25th wedding anniversary and had been saving up for a long time for a trip to Hawaii to celebrate this special milestone. But all she could think of was the fact that this vacation fund money would be much better served in adoption fees that would bring the love of a family to one more.
And as God was working on the Mom’s heart, He was also working on the Dad’s heart. And when the Mom talked to him about adding “one more” and cancelling/postponing the Hawaii trip, the Dad said “absolutley”! And the roadblocks started to slowly come down. Go God!!
We were not placed on this earth to serve ourselves. He placed us here to serve Him. To make a difference. To BE His hands and feet. Are we living for eternity or for the here and now? Oh, how God uses adoption to change hearts! Mine, especially.
And then He introduced us to Lyla and let us both know that she was the one He had handpicked for our family.

                           Chang Lu Tian 

Her medical needs seem big and scary and for a brief time we wondered if we could.....but then we both realized, how could we NOT?! God equips those He calls!! Would we not go to the end of the earth to make sure any of our children got the medical attention they need? God wants us to run to the orphans just as we would run to the children already in our family.  His hands and feet.  

For you see, each and every one of us is His child.

But friends, He does not just call a handful of us to have a heart for the fatherless. Scripture tells us we are ALL called to care for the widows and orphans in distress. Not all of us are called to adopt, however, we can pray, we can sponsor, we can support those in the process of adoption or you may realize that there really is space at your dining room table for just "one more". You can make a difference and be part of the change. Please allow the orphan crisis to be a burden on your heart and allow that burden to be a part of the solution. Adoption Changes Lives!!!! Every Child Deserves to Know the Love of a Family.

Thank you, Father for allowing us to bring home another one of your precious children! Please hold her close until we can bring her home.
Deut. 31:8 Do not be afraid or discouraged, for the LORD will personally go ahead of you. He will be with you; he will neither fail you nor abandon you. Thank you, friends for being part of our journey!

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